Here's a POWERFUL idea for you.
Operating like you've already won makes ALL the difference!
When I really looked at this, I realized how much stress & worry it removes, instantly. If you've already made the big sale, had the difficult heart-to-heart talk, rehabilitated from the accident, aced the test, won the race & wowed the audience, you're in celebration mode!
It only makes sense to go into everything, then, from the perspective of having already won. It's a little different from having a "winning attitude", which can be hard to conjure sometimes. It seems that it's more about developing a deep understanding that, in the end, Love wins.
It's about where you put the focus. Love is an act, an attitude, a state of being, a refusal to die before you're dead. Acting as Love itself is a radical act - generated from the heart.
So, start with the end in mind - 'cuz Love is a humongous, all-encompassing energy.
What do you have to lose?



I agree but I also have begun looking at winning differently. I enjoy playing tennis. For years I judged myself in win/losses in matches. In the past year I have let go of that concept. I don't judge myself by my wins or losses. I know and beleive that I am working hard and doing my best. That is all I can ask of myself. But guess what the result has been. I am winning matches! I am so relaxed when I play and I have fun! Of course I still will have losses, but they don't bring me crashing down any longer. Accepting myself where I am each day has spread to every aspect of my life! I'm not looking ahead or behind to see what should, or shouldn't have happened. I feel lighter and more free than I ever have.
Posted by: Cathy | Sep 11, 2012 at 07:19 PM
Beautiful! Feeling lighter & more free than you ever have - I'd say that's definitely winning!
Posted by: Kimberly Cain | Sep 12, 2012 at 12:04 AM